Chasing Down Rabbit Holes (and not doing what I need to be doing)

I have that internal Alice in Wonderland that thinks rabbit holes are for running into.

We’ve decided to go with for our text messaging solution right now. It’s pretty cheap and okay in features, but they are super great folks. And sometimes, you gotta go with the gut, not just the bottom line. (And they have the nifty features in the works, so it’s not like they’re ignoring it.)

But I spent about 15 hours this weekend thinking, “I can build a text messaging app!” and hunting down various services, tools and eLearning to figure out how.

This is why the minimum viable product (MVP) is so important. You spend far too much time trying to figure out (make up/guess) the Best Solution (BS).

So I have to take a step back, acknowledge my distraction and refocus.

I can’t take it as a “waste” though. And that’s super important. I didn’t waste time. I merely stretched my brain in ways I didn’t really expect to.

Which means I’ll be better all around. And more prepared to tackle the real things as they come up.

As long as I make sure the real things aren’t white rabbits.


A Reluctant Entrepreneur

So I’m in this weird and lovely journey – I’m co-founder of a startup. It’s also a scary journey. An overwhelming journey. And a journey full of dragons. Well, maybe not dragons. But sometimes it seems that way. Back in March of this year I found a fabulous business-minded business partner. Little Brother and I added…

If You Wonder Where You Can Write, Use Your Blog!

I keep thinking, “Gosh, this entrepreneur journey is so interesting. I wish I had a platform on which to write about it.” What an idiot, right? So instead of trying to use all my blogging best practices (nice picture, good headline, etc.) that I’ve learned the past 7 or so years, I’m going to just…

What are we fighting for?

I have joined my friends over at Reality for a Change and Tamar Coaching in a blog game. We all decided to write a post called “What are we fighting for?” The rules? Use any or all meanings of the question you can think of. It’s due tomorrow and here I am, just now putting…

2 Ways to Turn Off the Negative People in Your Life

Every time I interact with this one acquaintance I feel horrible. Her tone and her body language are extremely condescending. So much so that I spend hours after seeing her in self-doubt and sometimes tears. I’m done with it.

How to Avoid Communication Problems

Do you ever have a bad communication day? That was my day on Monday. I turned it into a learning opportunity, despite the amount of tears, anger and frustration it caused.

How to Be Antagonistic with Minimal Effort

If you had the power to be a sh*t stirrer on cue with no effort, you could be invincible. Here’s some tips on how to do it.

How to Adjust Your Internal Parameters

Each person has a certain set of defaults. This doesn’t mean that you must sit by and live with them. Just because life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans, doesn’t mean you stop planning.

What does your Twitter list say about you?

If we’re all shouting into the echo chamber of twitter and none of us are reading what each other is tweeting because we simply can’t keep track of that many people, why are we doing it?

6 Ways to Manage Social Networking

Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and whatever comes next. Are you able to handle them all? Here are six options to get you through and keep you connected, with minimal time expenditure.